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5 Tips to Become Instantly More Charistmatic
Charisma is an extremely important character trait–we build relationships, make first impressions, and open opportunities because of charisma. If we are well-mannered, polite, and likeable, we can go far in life. A charismatic person is emotionally approachable, non-judgemental, and influential....
5 Delicious Lebanese Recipes You Should Try Today
To us, Lebanon is home–and when we think of home, one of the first things we think of is the delicious food. Lebanon is known worldwide for its delicious, fresh, and exciting Mediterranean dishes–full of fresh, flavorful ingredients and strong,...
Dye your hair these colors if you have pale-to-light skin.
Everyone feels like mixing up their look every now and again–and an instant way to recreate your look big-time is by modifying your hair. Just because you’re hijabi doesn’t mean you can’t go wild with your hair–colour it, style it,...
Hijabi Mommies: How to Get Rid of Stubborn Postpartum Belly
Having children is a joy and a blessing–no mother regrets carrying her baby to term–and the bliss that children give mommies is indescribable. However, pregnancy can be straining on the body. Especially with multiple, back-to-back pregnancies, the process can take...
Modest Styling Tips for a Hassle-Free Vacation
From Hauling suitcases and getting it all through security, to getting to your terminal and trying to find your hotel in a brand new city, travelling can be a difficult experience–and everyone wants to look good doing it. Taking care...
Six Tips For Deciding on a Major
As a young person entering university, you probably have a lot of questions. It’s an exciting time–you’re getting ready to strike out on your own, be an adult, and begin the next phase of your education. You’re in a time...
Three Toxic Traits That Keep Us Far From Allah
"He has succeeded who purifies the soul, and he has failed who corrupts the soul." Qura'an, 91:9-10. Baggage–bad habits, attitudes, feelings, and impure thoughts, is something that we all experience. Negativity in our life weighs down the soul and can...
You Are Your Circle: What Islam Says About Friendship
We spend a great majority of our time with coworkers, family, friends and loved ones. It’s a known fact that we mirror the behaviour of our social groups–a side effect of the human desire to be accepted, and to ‘fit...
What Does The Metaverse Mean For Muslim Spirituality
Virtual online meetings have dominated social gatherings for the past two years–with many social events like forums, business meetings, seminars, and job interviews moving online. How many of us have attended business meetings from home while secretly wearing sweatpants on...
The Dangers of Ego and the Importance of Humility
Ego is one of the greatest pitfalls to faith, and it obstructs healthy relationships. But what is Ego? It’s a person's (unhealthy) sense of self-importance and self-esteem. Egoists tend to see themself and their needs as more important than those...
Three Things to Do During Your Summer Vacation
Summer is in full swing. If you’re a student, you’ve got months of free time ahead of you. If you’re a mom, your hands are as full as ever–but at least the days are getting longer! Free time and long,...
Traveling Thrifty: 5 Tips For Great Vacations on a Budget
It’s Summer vacation time! Where is your spirit of adventure going to whisk you away this Summer? That might depend on your wallet. Maybe you’re dreaming of a cross-country European vacation, or a food-fueled tour of Southeast Asia. Maybe you’re...
Here’s how to Give Zakat – and Love Doing It
“You will never attain righteousness until you spend in charity from that what you love.” Qura’an 3:92 Everything that we have was a gift bestowed upon us by God–our belongings, our surroundings, and our bodies. We are the custodians of...
10 Prophetic Habits to Follow
What does it mean to live a good, productive life? Everyone wants to know how to develop good habits, and there are different answers everywhere you look. Truly good habits, productivity, and meaningful happiness, come from discipline, and a healthy...
Here’s what the Qura’an says about these common relationships
Our relationships are an important aspect of our lives. From parents, to children, to neighbours, to spouses–these are the people we share our lives with. They know us better than anyone, and everyday they help shape us into the person...
Hijabi Queens - Check Out The NFT Bringing Hijabi Pride to Web 3.0
Hijabi Queens is a newly released NFT collection that features over 10,000 unique hijabi avatars. These nifty NFT’s allow owners access to VIP access to the Hijabi Queens club–basically an owners-only social circle. You might be confused–what is an NFT,...
TIps for Making Dhikr a Regular Part of Your Day
“Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest”(Quran 13:28). Dhikr, meaning “remembrance” or “mention” is an important aspect of the Muslim faith. In the context of the religion, Dhikr is to praise, worship, and remember Allah. Doing so...
The Power of Kindness
It's true that when we help those, we help ourselves. Kindness is one thing that we need more of in this world. When you are kind, you benefit everybody–even yourself! There are proven physical and mental health benefits associated with...
Live Eco-Friendly With These Five Tips
We only have one Earth, and we need to protect it. The earth and its inhabitants are a party of Allah’s perfect creation. Therefore, we have a duty to honour and protect it.  “Remember when your Lord said to the...
Tips For Raising Strong, Confident Girls
Daughters are a gift–they bring indescribable splendor and love into our lives. We watch them grow from infancy, learning, absorbing information, (and putting everything in their mouth). As children, they are adventurous, confident, and they will talk your ear off....
What Four Major Religions Say About Modesty
Modesty is an important staple of all major world religions. Modesty is generally practised as a form of discipline–to help us focus on the inner-spiritual nature of a person, instead of their outward appearance. Although all religions prescribe and practice...