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Three Toxic Traits That Keep Us Far From Allah
"He has succeeded who purifies the soul, and he has failed who corrupts the soul." Qura'an, 91:9-10. Baggage–bad habits, attitudes, feelings, and impure thoughts, is something that we all experience. Negativity in our life weighs down the soul and can...
You Are Your Circle: What Islam Says About Friendship
We spend a great majority of our time with coworkers, family, friends and loved ones. It’s a known fact that we mirror the behaviour of our social groups–a side effect of the human desire to be accepted, and to ‘fit...
What Does The Metaverse Mean For Muslim Spirituality
Virtual online meetings have dominated social gatherings for the past two years–with many social events like forums, business meetings, seminars, and job interviews moving online. How many of us have attended business meetings from home while secretly wearing sweatpants on...
The Dangers of Ego and the Importance of Humility
Ego is one of the greatest pitfalls to faith, and it obstructs healthy relationships. But what is Ego? It’s a person's (unhealthy) sense of self-importance and self-esteem. Egoists tend to see themself and their needs as more important than those...
Three Things to Do During Your Summer Vacation
Summer is in full swing. If you’re a student, you’ve got months of free time ahead of you. If you’re a mom, your hands are as full as ever–but at least the days are getting longer! Free time and long,...
Traveling Thrifty: 5 Tips For Great Vacations on a Budget
It’s Summer vacation time! Where is your spirit of adventure going to whisk you away this Summer? That might depend on your wallet. Maybe you’re dreaming of a cross-country European vacation, or a food-fueled tour of Southeast Asia. Maybe you’re...
Here’s how to Give Zakat – and Love Doing It
“You will never attain righteousness until you spend in charity from that what you love.” Qura’an 3:92 Everything that we have was a gift bestowed upon us by God–our belongings, our surroundings, and our bodies. We are the custodians of...
10 Prophetic Habits to Follow
What does it mean to live a good, productive life? Everyone wants to know how to develop good habits, and there are different answers everywhere you look. Truly good habits, productivity, and meaningful happiness, come from discipline, and a healthy...
Here’s what the Qura’an says about these common relationships
Our relationships are an important aspect of our lives. From parents, to children, to neighbours, to spouses–these are the people we share our lives with. They know us better than anyone, and everyday they help shape us into the person...
Hijabi Queens - Check Out The NFT Bringing Hijabi Pride to Web 3.0
Hijabi Queens is a newly released NFT collection that features over 10,000 unique hijabi avatars. These nifty NFT’s allow owners access to VIP access to the Hijabi Queens club–basically an owners-only social circle. You might be confused–what is an NFT,...
TIps for Making Dhikr a Regular Part of Your Day
“Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest”(Quran 13:28). Dhikr, meaning “remembrance” or “mention” is an important aspect of the Muslim faith. In the context of the religion, Dhikr is to praise, worship, and remember Allah. Doing so...
Live Eco-Friendly With These Five Tips
We only have one Earth, and we need to protect it. The earth and its inhabitants are a party of Allah’s perfect creation. Therefore, we have a duty to honour and protect it.  “Remember when your Lord said to the...
Tips For Raising Strong, Confident Girls
Daughters are a gift–they bring indescribable splendor and love into our lives. We watch them grow from infancy, learning, absorbing information, (and putting everything in their mouth). As children, they are adventurous, confident, and they will talk your ear off....
What Four Major Religions Say About Modesty
Modesty is an important staple of all major world religions. Modesty is generally practised as a form of discipline–to help us focus on the inner-spiritual nature of a person, instead of their outward appearance. Although all religions prescribe and practice...
Understanding Dhull Hijja and How to Make the Most of It
We are getting close to the month of Dhull Hijjah-the month of the Pilgrimage. The Hajj season is a special time for Muslims. This most blessed and sacred month contains a number of important events and holidays for Muslims–all of...
Five Gift Ideas For Muslim Girls
It can be hard to shop for kids–their interests are always changing, and who knows what it is they really want! Shopping for your girl, whatever the occasion, can be a hassle. So, we want to help out by serving...
While America Celebrates Juneteenth, Here is What Islam Says About Slavery
America just celebrated Juneteenth–a federal holiday that celebrates the day that African American slaves learned of their freedom in 1965. The holiday began among Texas slaves, but is now a federal holiday celebrated across the United States. Although slavery was...
FAQ About The Hijab
The Hijab is a piece of clothing, typically a headscarf, worn by Muslim women to express modesty. The Hijab typically covers the hair and ears, but other forms, such as the Niqab and Burqa, cover the body and face. Veils...
Rosemary Water in Your Hair? TikTok Fact or Fiction?
As a hijabi, it's important to protect your hair health. Although hijabs are great at keeping hair protected from the natural elements, some hair types experience dryness, irritation, and oiliness from being under a veil all day. So, it's important...
Five Muslim Women Who Changed The World
From getting the kids ready for school, to leading armies, women can do it all. We’re proud to see more women making history than ever. Women are leaders, teachers, and pioneers–and they always have been. In this blog, we want...
Tips on raising a reader, and six books they will love
Reading is a virtue. We can learn in many ways: from observation, touch, lecture–but there is no better way to absorb information and learn than by reading. When we read, our potential for knowledge has no limits. For our kids,...